Yes, I have a Skype account, and I use this website, various social networking sites, and NiteFlirt to generate clientele. Considering that most of my work is done over the phone, I purchased a Skype line to make it convenient for me to take those scheduled, or pre-screened calls. At the time of purchase, I hadn’t realised that it would list me in a directory, and I would receive no end of random calls and messages from people who have pulled up my profile through searching ‘mistress’, who haven’t even bothered to read it. (It’s really very short and to the point, too.)

That being said, these are the rules for contacting me through Skype. Break them, and you will be warned. Continue to do so, and the third time, you’ll be blocked. No exceptions.

• Read my profile. You’ll learn quickly that I’m a professional dominatrix and a counselor. If there’s no chance you’re going to become a client, then simply don’t bother contacting me at all. I don’t care if you’re some foreign guy looking for friends. Make them elsewhere; I don’t have time for that. This is my business.
• Do not, under any circumstances — ever — call me without scheduling with me first. I will not answer. If you do this and it’s expressly during my off-hours — I don’t care who you are — you will be blocked immediately. And, yes, without warning.
• If you wish send me a message, make it brief, and be sure to include your name (or some form of identification), an email address, your age and location, how you found me, and whether or not you have any accounts on the ‘big 3′ kinky social networking sites: collarme.com, fetlife.com, or bondage.com — though, I prefer the first two. If we’re going to have any contact at all, I want information about you first. I don’t waste my time on strange men who tend to have no other intention outside of doing just that. Terribly sorry.
• If I’m not responding to your message, don’t get pissy. Consider yourself lucky if I respond at all, since I’m usually busy at any given moment you may be messaging me. Just keep your cool. If I get to it, I do. If not, then email me. That works just as well, and typically better.

If you should wish to become a client, show a serious interest by telling me genuinely about yourself and making a real effort: sending me an email as well with a brief background and what work we may do together, as well as availabilities you may have for scheduling purposes. That’s always an excellent start.

So, general rule — don’t waste my time, I won’t waste yours; always be polite, and I can be one of the most congenial individuals you’ve ever encountered. Ignore my rules, and you won’t like my response. You’ve been warned. And quite nicely, at that.