Wow.

First off, I’d like to say two things:

1, I wish I had time for making this post today, but I really don’t, since my first choice for a supporting role is coming by to audition in … 40 minutes, and there are several more throughout the day.

2, I’m touched that I received such a response — surprise, shock, concern — from so many people regarding the ‘kink break’ post. (Which you can find yourselves. You’re fantastic, but I don’t have time to direct-link you at the moment.)

Any rate, I’m slightly amused that there was this much of a kerfuffle to begin with; if you go back and read my reflections regarding the Moonlight Whispers film, (again, Google; you’re big boys and girls — those fingers need exercise!) you’ll notice that the take-home message seemed to (very clearly) be:

‘Kink always wins’.

Bearing that in mind, you can only imagine what transpired pretty soon afterward. A long, intense conversation (due to a 22.5-hour drive split into 10.5 and 12 hour trips — a  couple of which I drove — yay! — and a couple of differently themed scenes subsequently) focusing directly upon our individual needs in kink, and how to better satisfy them. (Refer to prior post to see what it is that I was specifically missing, or what need of mine was not being met — the Reader’s Digest version being, realism.)

Things are better. They’re continuing to be. We’re not there yet, but I feel confident we can get there with some time and mutual effort. In the meantime — it’s good. Part of the kink break wasn’t even directly a result of needs being unmet, but there just not being time for it at present.

I mean, you try taking care of a kid for nigh 24/7 for a week, (a kid who just doesn’t sleep, mind) tutoring, posting casting notices, scheduling auditions, and then auditioning those potential cast members — along with handling ALL the rest of life: clients, porn stuff, clips for the new clips stores, friends … family … migraines …

It gets to be a bit. Sometimes we all need to throw up our hands and say, ‘That’s it! I’ve had enough! I need a break!’ To stop, rewind, re-evaluate, and approach things from a better, more satisfying angle.

On that note: what in your life could you put the brakes on, re-evaluate, and come up with a perhaps better solution to? What’s been a niggling issue for awhile that’s preventing you from moving forward in an area you’d like to? Maybe it’s time to hit the pause button and look at things from a new perspective. After all, continuing to do the same thing over and over again, and watching it continually fail, is just wasting time. Life’s short, and the road to achieving our goals (and dreams) is long. We need all the time we can get.

Maybe the time to change that … is now?

Think about it.

More to come.

Tags: kink always wins, moonlight whispers, real kink, taking a kink break