Mystressworld is Revealed as a Scam
Mistress Roulette and I knew this was a scam from the get-go, but here’s a post from a Mystressworld insider revealing that the website had no intention of ever matching submissive men to dominant women. Instead, it was just looking to cash in on the fantasy. I’ve very proud of the controversial stance that Mistress Roulette took. It always feels good to be vindicated.
What follows is the entire text of what this Mistress wrote for those who want to read it.
SATURDAY, MAY 2, 2009Don’t Get Taken For a Ride
MystressWorld.com is a scam, designed to play on the sincere desires of submissive men and dominant women to meet one another. Here is how it works: You are typically contacted by someone with the name MystressWorld on sites such as the CollarMe.com website, instructing you to email them at yesmystress@yahoo.com. From there, you are instructed to send cash payment via mail to a PO Box or paypal and promised to be part of training in which you will meet a partner in your area serious about having a D/s relationship.Women are targeted as well as men, and the women are used to lure men, and both are cycled in and out of the program and separated. Whenever people are getting close to meeting, they are often separated and for additional payment, one can stay in the program for longer periods. The trick then is to dangle the promise of getting people together, all the while trying to maximize their profits in getting people to send more money.
So what do you get if you are foolish enough to join? A series of training webpages that could only appeal to the most childish minded. After finishing a given “lesson” you email what you did back to the site manager and advance to the next lesson. There are literally many dozens of such “lessons” and domme as well as male submissive must complete them. It is an endless maze, leading to nowhere.
Bottom line, is that MystressWorld is a scam and you will be taken of your money at the end.
I am a domme who was formerly involved with MystressWorld and left after realizing the dishonesty and lies that were all too routine. There are several other of us who left around the same time. I wanted no part of it and was used. It is wrong to deceive men and women this way and it was wrong to have used us to in turn use men to send money.
The purpose of this blog is for people to find it and be warned. Google “mystressworld” for more information and verify for yourself what is said here. If you join, you will be taken advantage of and used. No ifs or buts about it.
Many on the Collarme.com website are organizing to fight this and bring better public attention to this fraudulent scammer and our hope is twofold. First, to warn people, and two, to bring to the attention of the government the money scam that is being done. Doubtless tax-evasion of the money being made is being committed.
Together we can destroy this person and this site and send a clear and loud message that the true BDSM community will organize against these kinds of frauds out there who attempt to victimize our members. Men and women, submisive and dominant alike, organize against such sites and fight it as best you can by joining groups or posting messages whenever you see things like this.
NEVER GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THESE PEOPLE.
You will be robbed and a fool if you do.
Tags: Mystressworld.com
June 4th, 2009 at 6:20 pm
Oh jesus…thank you! I was almost suckered into it myself. I had a hunch it was a scam when the whole…paying for it thing was brought up. I’m glad I checked up on it. I’m gonna report the profile right now. I feel pretty dumb about it, but at least I’ve still got my money.
June 14th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
As a rule you should never send any money or personal information to anyone requesting it. I bet male subs/dommes get suckered the most. Let’s face it, there’s thousands more dudes on these sites than women.
August 19th, 2009 at 6:53 am
Good morning Madame,
please excuse me but i am not agree with your comment because i was in tranning with MystressWorld and Mystress was very considerable in my low economic condition, but i understand that if i am in a comunity i have to coperate with this comunity, nothing is free in this world and Mystress is the Leader in MystressWorld and after Her are the Domme Corp`s , please excuse me but i am not agree with You.
August 22nd, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Juanita,
I understand that English is clearly not your native tongue, but I’m having a very difficult time understanding the point you’re attempting to make. From my own experience, and that of others, MystressWorld was proven to be an organisation of negative influence for, evidently, subs and dommes alike. Should you have something to actually contribute other than ‘I am not agree with you’ — which isn’t even a proper sentence — then, please, do so. Otherwise, all you’re saying is a bunch of nothing. The facts speak for MystressWorld. Those who have been involved with it left due to its dishonest practises, and those who ‘benefited’ from its teachings and practises are still suffering the effects (from the maltreatment and abuse). Oh, yeah! That sounds like a GREAT organisation!
October 11th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
Thank You! Miss Roulette. I just see this e-mail to my profile in Collarme. and I see this person never see my profile before sending me e-mail. To bad to many scams in this world. Almost near to impossible to fined honest mistress in USA.
October 17th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
I am surprised at the conclusions of the woman you cite and think her claims of fraud and abuse are unjustified on the facts as she presents them. She cites no evidence that men and women are prevented from meeting. She states there is deliberate trickery but quotes nothing to substantiate this.
She calls the training “childish”, but that is subjective; even if true, it does not support claims of fraud.
Without examples or more substantiation, her assertion that MystressWorld is a fraud is no more plausible than their assertion that it isn’t. Her tone suggests someone who became disgruntled with MystressWorld and is venting her spleen. That’s her right, but there is a world of difference between criticizing someone and charging them with criminal behavior. Her desire that people band together and destroy MystressWorld raises a red flag for me: I have seen this sort of language used much more to bring false accusations than true ones. And her speculation that “doubtless” there is tax evasion going on is a flagrant and baseless charge without more information.
If you know this person other than as an anonymous poster who might simply have an axe to grind, or if you have more information than that given above, I assert that it is quite plausible that this poster has merely conceived a dislike of MystressWorld because it did not live up to her expectations, and has launched a vicious flame at it for petty revenge. I stand ready to believe otherwise should new information come to light.
June 30th, 2010 at 6:20 pm
I have used mystressworld and still do. The poster here suggests mystressworld stops people meeting. This is simply not true because all members use a private yahoo address which mystress has no control over. If two people hit it off then they are free to do as they like.
Betty
June 30th, 2010 at 7:19 pm
Mercy and Betty both,
That was written by my fiancé, based upon information that we both received upon various occasions from those who had been personally involved with — and, yes, disappointed by — Mystressworld.
I have corresponded with ‘Mystress’ herself a few times and was … well, personally stunned by the poor grammar and total lack of care involved in making sure that she was getting a clear point across. I had no ‘axe to grind’ then, but when I ended up with clients who had had such awful dealings through the website, I felt it was time that someone stood up for the subby boys.
Like anything, there will be positives and negatives. But since I was dealing with picking up the pieces and helping those whose lives were destroyed by members of this website, naturally, I’m seeing a more biased, dangerous view — at close range.
I wrote my own post at some point, but this wasn’t it. Ah, well. I’m sure he’ll see your comments and respond accordingly. If not, I’ll let him know. Also, I’m not sure who wrote the original post which he cited. You’d have to track that down.
-R.
July 1st, 2010 at 2:52 am
Let’s make sure we’re clear. Mystressworld is total, complete and utter bullshit. It’s a website set up by an illiterate man who couldn’t be bothered to proof read his own masturbatory regurgitations. It serves no purpose except to separate fools from their money.
It appears we have a couple of such fools here.
September 8th, 2011 at 9:14 pm
I was suckered in also but eventually saw the light. Yes, I spent some money and was “trained” by a Domme who was across the country from me. I was transferred to other Dommes after my initial “training” but none close to me and no chance of a actual ltr since I cannot relocate. Mystress told me initially that she had a “sister” who lived close to me, was age appropriate and I was perfect for her and after my training assignment she would get me in contact with her. I now know that was not a true statement. I am not stupid and finally figured out where this was going – no where. Like some others, I was contacted at collarme. It is interesting to note that not only submissives fell for this but Dommes also. My life was not destroyed by MystressWorld and I do not know if it is a scam or if Mystress was a man and also playing the part of the Dommes on the site but I am suspicious. The money I spent was not substantial so no monetary regrets. My last Domme on the site I was really in tune with and we communicated on a web site different than MystreeWorld and one day she just disappeared and wouldn’t answer my emails. To this day I don’t know what happened but that was it for me. Mystress was not helpful in trying to find this Domme – she just said sometimes Dommes as well as boys just disappear and she offered me another Domme. Well, I wasn’t born yesterday so quickly exited the site. This was over 2 years ago and with all the negative comments I have read I am surprised they are still in business. So anyone contemplating joining this site, keep these comments and the others in the back of your mind.
October 7th, 2011 at 3:03 am
It’s usually the people who don’t get what they want that do all the complaining. I am a Domme who trains through MystressWorld and have had an opportunity to train boys who live within a 60 radius of my home. Receiving a boy to train is based on several things, not just proximity. Many of the boys feel safe training online and when given the opportunity to meet in person, run for the hills.
There is always, in any business, positives and negatives about the “company.” MystressWorld is no different.
Think about where you work…is everything peachy keen? Are all the comments made about your company great, or are there negative comments?
This is a legitimate business. The Domme’s who do the training receive NO COMPENSATION of any kind through MystressWorld.
Just saying
November 4th, 2011 at 5:52 am
I’m confused about this…whether this is legitamate or not. It’s probably a case of me wanting to believe it’s real :-/
I’m at the point they want me to send $100, which wouldn’t be the worst thing, I guess, if it were real….
December 23rd, 2011 at 3:14 pm
I’m a currently enrolled Domme in the MW program. I’m not a fan of the setup in regard to not seeing one another until you’re ready to meet IP. but just as anything else there are rules whether you follow them is a different story. The claims of never meeting IP is BS because the sub you get to know is accessible in every way, there’s email collarme and fetlife account user names shared. If for some reason you feel to have chemistry with someone and not follow the program DC and subs alike you can meet IP there’s no prevention…
However, there’ something to be learned/ gained from all of this. It’s a platform with lessons that can guide you through your journey as Domme/sub. Mystress world is not a way of life or a lie it’s an opportunity for discovery with the benefit of a connection to someone who seeks the same a D/s relationship. There’s nothing that prevent you from continuing your progress with another Domme or sub if you feel distance or compatability is an is an issue. If you’re not Domme enough to take control then you need more than MW perhaps a reevaluation. MW is not holding anyone back from anything. After the starter series a boy can decide for himself whether or not this is for him and if he wants to continue to invest his time and money. The fees are nominal especially when considering the bigger picture.
Happy Holidays and Best of Luck To All
M